adoption of grandson in state facility put in by dcfs from foster home

[zoethel]

I have 8 yr old grandson placed in state home from foster home. He is on 4 different medicines for adhd and agreesion. This child has been moved around in different foster homes I was not allowed to get him even though I have clean record. Daughter has lost all rights to children. I want him out of that home into mine when I see him he is so drugged that he constantly falls asleep one of the medicines is suppose to be given under 13 someone help me

[MommyKelly]

Have you asked to had him placed with you? If so and they haven't you need to find out why. You said she has lost all rights so I am assuming that he has been in care for quite some time if termination has been done. If the social worker isnt returning your calls, I would suggest moving higher up the chain. You may also need to contact a lawyer. Their 1st plan is always to place with family so I am not sure why you are having a problem :(

[queenjane]

What happens when you go to court? Im not sure the rules where you are but where i am a child has to have court every three months. Even after termination there are post-TPR reviews. Have you talked to his GAL/CASA? (many children in care have their own lawyer or advocate) Why were you turned down to adopt him? They have to give you a reason....the law is pretty clear about relatives having priority. Did you go to court with your daughter?

You may need to hire a lawyer.
 

[APToddlerMama]

Have you had a home study done?

It is uncommon for workers to not be very motivated to place a child in a permanent home with family, so if they haven't given you a reason, you should ask for one or contact a supervisor.