From the article:
"Following that window, it's the marriages that really seem to fray -- some to the point of breaking. A recent divorcée said to me, "Well, of course, we never had sex anymore with the kids in the bed -- why couldn't he understand that?" Because I'm betting that was nowhere in your vows. "
Umm.... We've done it everywhere else BUT the bed since Levi was born. Sex doesn't need to happen in the bed! It shouldn't HAVE to happen in the bed. I think the writer is just grasping at straws to put down attachment parenting and implement her agenda.