Does everyone find it strange to be actively in a good relationship. with someone, having a baby in a few weeks but not be able to live together?
I'm having a huge time accepting the fact that my bf and I can't live together until I return to work bc he cannot afford a place with his salary alone right now...
I am on the verge of upset bc we talked about raising this baby together... he talks about how he's gna love waking up at night to feed and bond with the baby yet just had a conversation with me saying how.he can't afford it right now and asking me to give him a little more time. that he wants to be there for us... but how the hell is that gna happen with us living separately! !!
I moved in with my mom to a one bedroom when I had to stop working so he can't come here, and he lives in a 3 bedroom with his aunt who's only there once a month... and his mom who only comes over on the weekends...so my family is shocked as to why I can't live in his house until we're able to get something together so we can raise this baby together!
my fam and I guess isee it too that he's not supporting us like he should.. he doesn't help me pay for my health ins I had to get when I found out I was pregnant, he hasn't offored anything really and he has not been to one appointment bc of "work" which I think is an excuse...
do I have a right to feel angry, unsupported and like ill be raising this baby alone? we never argue at all, we get along great, he says hes more than happy, says he loves me ( yet only sees me once a weekk! (what is he planning to do in 7 weeks.. visit thr baby and I once a week still???)
so am I right, or making this bigger than I should?