hi all! My name's Trai, I'm due 2/5 with my third child, however i wasn't planning on having any children in this phase of my life!
I'll be 39 Thursday, and my youngest child is 10. He's in my avatar. My oldest is 14, soon to be 15. We joke that we'll be shopping for colleges and daycare at the same time!
We got pregnant back in December but lost that one around 9.5 weeks. Both of us are responsible adults, and we were not trying to get pregnant. This was literally one of those times where we had to grin at the old adage, "...the only way to NOT get pregnant is to practice abstinence" which wasn't going to happen. So, 4.5 years into a relationship and onto the second part of our lives, baby No. 3 happened (baby #1 for him, my kids are from a previous marriage). Then, tragedy struck and we were all pretty devastated. After some conversation we ended up actually trying, and two months later I was postitively pregnant!
We're all very excited, including my other two children. Now we're house shopping, baby shopping, and making plans for a new chapter in our lives!
I'm even semi-enjoying laughing at my more old fashioned relatives that find it shocking I'm having a baby shower for this one.
Nice to meet ya ladies!