Update on us: DP finally got tired of his mother's run around and told her off and about the baby this afternoon on the phone. We're giving her until next Friday to either come visit us or let us come visit her before we officially announce. We'll be 16 weeks then. DP wants to give her a chance to come get to know me before ex finds out (if Mom doesn't tell her) and starts the trash talking. Next Saturday we're making a family excursion to the Scottish Games in St. Louis. My mother is coming up as well and she's going to take a family photo of us with both his children and mine (so a real family shot! YAY!). Then we're going to upload it to FB with this caption:
"Tickets and Gas to Scottish Games: $75
Kilt to represent Scottish heritage: $175
Realizing there are really six people in this picture (and that we may be entitled to a refund)? PRICELESS."
DP and I's ancestry is heavily Scottish so he owns a kilt and will be wearing it for said photo and we may be getting some clothes for baby unicorn there. It's also the day we're going to tell his kids. Lol, well both our toddlers already know but as they don't speak terribly well yet they weren't really a 'danger' for spilling the beans. It's more his 8 year old we want to talk to about it and explain things before his mother does. Maybe we'll get REALLY lucky and the divorce will finalize this week before then so she won't be able to do anything nasty.