My fears right now are all centered around my chronic health issue (ulcerative colitis which is flaring right now) which has me gaining weight slower than I'd like, had me underweight to begin with and the low weight has me worrying a bit about preterm labor.
I gained fine with my other 2 but was not dealing with a flare up with either of those. I'm doing what I can to get back into remission and also think once that happens I may gain more easily.
I'm not obsessing about it, but did a little research yesterday on ways I can try to prevent Preterm labor. I'm getting a few things to have on hand and hoping that will ease my mind a little.
Also planning some tasty snacks and things (I have several food restrictions) that will be high in calories but not exacerbate my symptoms.
It's common for me to have some kind of fear during pregnancy and hopefully this one will turn out to be no problem, just as the fear I had last time never became a reality.
resting and not obsessing!