So the Santa thread in tao got me thinking about if you handle Santa differently with a special needs child.
My oldest is on the spectrum. I think he still believes in Santa. He's 13. He's pretty high functioning. Most of his issues revolve around social things. My concern is that he is going to be teased if he does still believe in Santa. Do I ask him? Do I tell him? Do I just let things progress the way they seem to be? I really don't want his eventual partner to have to break it to him!