a long time ago, I posted on being wishywashy on hb plans, partially for a very odd reason. I felt sorta let down but the "any other dayness" the hb (like no one cared b/c locally no one there to care ). Last week my MW asked if I had any special desires for the birth or right after. I don't. Maybe b/c my last labor was too intense to care about anything like music or candles that I don't have any thoughts in the "settting" direction or maybe I'm just to otherwise occupied to think of what I want. But....I don't want to regret this last opportunity to do something special.
Do you all have any specific things to make the big day or first days extra special (w/out spending a fortune)? I just can't think of anything and maybe thats okay?