I need help!
My 3.5 yr old is (was?) potty trained. For more than 6 months. In the last month or so he has started peeing and pooping on himself often. Twice pooping on himself today. I try really hard not to shame him or lose it but I am not very patient really because all I want to do is throw up on him and he thinks it's all fun and games.
If I remind him or put him on a timer again I get nothing but fighting all day long which leaves us both pissy and causes me to have to physically lift and take him to the potty which I am pretty close to not being able to do. Not to mention, I don't WANT this kind of relationship with him.
So, what the f? I mean really- do I put him in diapers everyday? Do I fight all day to get him to the potty? Do I resort to some kind of rewards system which I despise? Or do I somehow manage to put on a happy face while cleaning poop out of his underwear and pee off the floor?
I am totally becoming a horrible parent over this issue and I fear that I am not only damaging my son somehow but also this baby.
When I ask him why this he peed or pooped on himself he says, because I wanted too.