My baby is particularly small and I'm looking for a carrier that will suit her needs better. Just for some background, my baby was born full term at 3 lbs 12 oz and is now 3 months old, just shy of 8 lbs. Despite her size, she is an absolutely normal baby. I have had her in a bjorn, but she doesn't particularly like her arms swished up. This is my third child, and all my other children started out in a bjorn and transitioned to a pikkolo around 2-3 months. The problem with doing that is that she is too short in the pikkolo and her legs cannot be spread apart that wide (it's like she's doing the splits on my belly). It's not working.
I am not interested in a wrap. I also take my other kids (age 2 and 4) to the playground and go walking alot, so my tiny baby has to be sturdy in the carrier, if you know what I mean. I would love to hear what you all might suggest!