I have a huge dilemna going on - in a time of need a family member sugggested coming to stay with me to offer moral support. Before I gave a definitve answer this family member bought an air ticket to come for 5 F'N WEEKS!!! I am half-way through the 5 weeks, but am starting to think it was actually RUDE and SELFISH of this person to book such a long stay without my definitve OK on the situation. I had initailly suggested 3 weeks.
I have made this person understand I am stressed by their presence and even asked her to leave before the 5 weeks, which she refused to do saying that I didn't have to worry about entertaining her...etc but the thing is I AM F'N ANNOYED by this person. At a time when I needed moral support, I realise I am much better off when self-sufficient, and she is about 98% of my stress load at the moment.