I'll say it's worth saying to DH that you don't feel it's necessary to take her in so soon after her last visit. A lie by omission is still a lie IMHO.
I'm the opposite though. I wouldn't feel I need to justify all my reasons not to do XYZ shots. Instead, I say to him if you want the baby to get them, convince me. Convince me he needs them right now vs waiting. Tell him he needs to go into all the reasons he wants to give Ava those vaccines.
I agree with this but couldn't figure out how to write it out earlier. I would tell my dh that I'm not taking the kids to the doctor. If he objects, he needs to give me thoughtful, factual reasons why they need to be seen. Until he can do that, we won't be going. He has never been able to do that and now is beginning to agree with me on it all, I think.
I don't like showing my belly, either. That's why I like the nursing tanks better, if I'd ever remember to wear the darn things! I think the other issue I have with actually wearing the nursing tanks is that they feel more like shirts than bras to me so I feel like I should wear a clean one every day, whereas I'll wear the same bra every day for a week before washing it.
DH watched the kids last night while I went to my neighbor's house to knit. It was nice. I came home around 10:30. DH was watching the debate and had no idea where Dylan was.