I know there has been alot of here and I have been reading through your posts. Decided to post anyway. So my son is 14 1/2 months old. He starts off in his now toddler bed we just got him, which is next to my bed. He co sleeps part of the night in bed with me. So about 3 now almost 4 weeks ago he started to wake up at 11/1130pm after going to sleep at 8pm. I nurse him to sleep every night. We had him in a crib in my room but would scream bloody murder to get out. So that is why we got a toddler bed. We dont do COI. So he has been getting up at 11/ 1130 then basically nursing all night He is sleeping with me and tossing and turning so I am not getting any sleep. he is not getting good sleep and wakes himself up then wants to nurse again. I feel like we are both zombies and I feel like my son is not getting good sleep he wakes up looking exhausted and so am I. I feel like its not good for either of us.
So any advice what works for you. Did the Dr Gordon method work? I am trying that now tonight will be night 2 first night was ok he cried when I unlatched him, but took his paci and went back to sleep. I think the hardest will be night 4-6 when he cant nurse at all. I still want to nurse to sleep and in the morning, just feel that maybe this is the only way he will sleep. He used to sleep 7-8 hours a night and now I am lucky if he sleeps 2 hours in a row. is this a phase?