Regarding the ones fighting, I feel you! Mine is to the point I would consider what my boyfriend does to me as emotional, mental, AND verbal abuse. I looked the different types up online, and each one of those fit the bill. The last fight we had, he scared my daughter (whom is not his) and that crossed the line. When your sitting in the middle of the bedroom floor of your child crying because of his screaming at you, and your 6 year old comes up to you and says don't cry mommy, I love you, you know its bad. Thers more to it, but I don't know that this is the right place to talk about it (even though I need to vent.) I do know that within the next couple weeks (unknown to my boyfriend) I will be leaving him and moving back in with my daughters grandparents (her dads parents, not mine.) I know during pregnancy isn't always the best time to make major changes, but this situation is a good example of where I think its a good idea. Definitly also going to talk to my doc at my appt Wednesday about the situation and my bad depression. I don't know what can be done, but maybe just talking to the doc will help.
Thank you for listening to my rant. I hope you all have a good day!