I guess I'm leaning toward female, but maybe that's just because I hear everyone talk all the time about how it's time for us to have a girl now? Since we have two boys, I guess? I don't know - we adore our boys and can't imagine not having another, really!
Our timing suggests a higher potential for a girl...if all of that is true. In fact, we missed the few days around O so much that I was really stunned I even got pregnant this cycle (that, and the fact that I ovulated a week after I stopped bleeding with my m/c). The first nurse I talked to say, "Oh, I'm thinking girl!" and then stopped herself quickly.
I'm still wishing for twins...and I guess I'm thinking 2 girls. That's such a huge dream of mine - 4 kids: 2 boys, 2 girls. I even said all along that I wanted a big gap between kids 1, 2 and 3, 4. I'm on track for a lot of that...only time will tell on the rest!
I can't imagine that disappointment that so many people get. I try to understand it, but I'm just over the moon excited to even have this opportunity, love having little boys so much, would love to have a girl...it just doesn't matter to me! I just love babies!