timesway we use a combination of prefolds with covers AND pockets.
The pockets look a lot like throw away nappies/diapers and can come with either snaps or velcro. I personally prefer the snaps as my little one can't unfasten the snaps, but he can get the velcro ones off if we don't put something else over them. I like the pockets better than the AIOs, as the inserts come out to dry faster, and you can add extra inserts if they are heavy wetters. The lining of the pockets/AIOs will help keep the skin a bit drier than a prefold will, but all cloth nappies/diapers should get changed as quickly as possible after wetting, which is no big deal since it doesn't cost you more money like throw aways do.
For laundry I wash mine in a cold rinse, hot wash with detergent and another cold rinse. Since our HOA won't allow us to line dry clothes I use the dryer for the prefolds and inserts and air dry the covers and pockets on a rack indoors. Drying in the sun will help cut down on staining, so I try to sneak them out to the back patio occasionally to get the benefit of the sun bleaching them.
We use the pockets mostly for overnight, especially as my boys will both sleep 10-12 hours a night. I then use the prefolds and covers for during the day. We have way too many prefolds and really only use 24 of them between both boys, and we use the same 6 pockets between 2 of them too (although we have 12 pockets we took half of them out of circulation) DS1 is starting to potty train (its been on hold during my all day nausea) and spends most of his awake time without a nappy/diaper. He just gets one to sleep or if we are going out somewhere, so that is beginning to cut down some of the load for me.
I love cloth and I don't know how families can afford to use throw away nappies/diapers. Not only is it a whole lot less expensive, but some of the cloth ones are really cute, and we often just have the boys in a nappy/diaper and a t-shirt because I don't want to cover up their cute nappy/diaper.
Hope that helps a bit. If you have more questions about nappies just ask. I'm sure you'll get a lot of different experiences from the different mamas here, but most of the ones I know that use cloth would never go back to throw away.
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