Ugh, this just kills me. I feel for this mother so deeply and have been thinking about her since reading here. Prayers out to your community, real. I know what you mean about the struggle between safety and freedom to experience life. It sucks we should have to choose, and that because of people out there, we could possibly make a choice that leads to something like this. So sorry.
Plady, I make the pancakes with a banana, an egg and a T almond butter. Easier to find than coconut flour. My kids love them. Taste like banana bread.
Little over a week left here. Hope to have some info soon with plane tickets, etc., so I can figure out the logistics of our luggage. A little thing in the big picture.