Well I'm a single mom (27). And I have a son who is 10 months, his dad and I broke up when he was 3months due to domestic violence in the relationship. Just to even think about dating makes me sick. Right now Im at the point where I HATE MEN (and hell no I'm not gay and u don't intend to go dipping in the lady pond ... no offense to anyone in that lifestyle..I believe you are free to love whoever you want to love). This last relationship changed my whole view on men. I believe they are all liers and manipulaters, and they are just out to please themselves whether its in the form of money, sex, etc.
I NEVER thought in a million years lol I would be that women who hates men. But sorry I ended up with a fool who changed my whole view.
My family says I'm still young and they encourage me to have an open heart and recieve love . They say my soul mate is out there, and no one is meant to be alone. Um NICE words but I will pass. Last time I open my heart to someone I ended up hurt and broken down to the point I didn't he know myself anymore. YES MY HEART IS BLACK. And its going to stay that way because that's the only way I can protect myself .
Yes. I'm raising a son but thank GOD I have positive male role models in my family.
I choose not to date because I'm suffering from a lot of hurt . Im bitter. Im mad. Im Angry. And right now the only LOVE I need is the LOVE my son gives me. Lol I think GOD himself would have to come to earth amd literally tell me it time to date again. So with this said, I Guess I will be a Single Mom forever !!!!!
Singlemoms ROCK !!!! :-D
I understand completely, I definitely jumped into dating too soon after my divorce. I think the longer i am single the pickier i become too. And with kids in the mix, it is no longer you ,but you and them you have to make decisions for. I dumped the guy i was dating back in the winter because it was like a crazy train. It was a learning lesson for me though, i am glad i dumped him my only concern is that i didn't do it sooner because he was throwing out red flags left and right. 2 months before i realized it was not a good thing. Of course with xdh it took me 8 years to finally call it quits and so much crap that i put up with, i am always disapointed i stayed longer, never regretting leaving any bad situation. Right now you need to take time and heal. I first separated from xdh when dd was 9 months, dating was the last thing on my list!