Nice Kate, grats on the car working out! Good luck with finding all the baby gear and maternity clothes, I only loaned out baby clothes and my infant car seat. The clothes I was fine with not getting back, but SIL & brother returned them just a month ago, and the infant car seat it was clear I wanted it back, but I figured SIL & brother could use it while I didn't need it with plenty of time to get it back to me for this time. They actually ended up getting a new one, but it was used by my Mom & Dad for when they visited so they didn't have to lug the infant car seat onto the plane, so it worked out
I actually offered them other stuff (the jumperoo thing, a bouncy seat, swing, etc.), but with their tiny apartment, they didn't want anything else or already had stuff as gifts that suited them better.
Our biggest budgeting news was the great discount my daycare provider is giving me. She usually gives 10% off the oldest child's tuition, but she's going to discount 20% off all three of their tuitions! This is so huge and will make finances much less tight. I was considering backing off one or both of our retirement savings, but I don't think we'll have to now.
As for stuff to buy, still need another crib, a double stroller, one more convertible car seat (but not until later and I might get two depending on fit) and a handful of small things (new thermometer, more bottles, new monitor, new bottle nipples for old bottles, a gate or two (later), some more childproofing stuff (for later - harder to keep track of twins & toddler), diapers (I did get a couple N packs that were on sale before Christmas), baby tylenol, at least one more bouncy seat (I'd really like to have 2 for upstairs for showering and 2 for the first floor for cooking - but I can get by with just 2 total), some pacifiers, some clothing to fill in the gaps, coming home outfits, etc.) My Mom got a lot of the stuff off our mini-registry, so we don't need too much more and except maybe the stroller, another bouncy seat, and the diaper-type stuff I don't have to get the rest right away, though I want to because I want to be as organized as possible before. I'm kind of waiting until after my parents' visit as I know they will give us some gift cards, so we can get some of the stuff with those.