We have a 16 month DD and I'm almost 35. I'd like to have another soon, like now, but a few months back DH dropped the bomb on me that he wasn't sure that he wanted anymore. Before having DD, we had always said we wouldn't have just one.
I felt pretty bad about it for a few months, betrayed almost. But then I decided just to focus on the baby I already had and felt a little better about it.
I still haven't seen AF yet, although I've noticed fertile cervical fluid the past few days. DH remarked last night that my hormones must be changing because of increased drive. We did NFP before DD and even though 2 of our close friends have gotten pregnant while nursing, he doesn't seem concerned that I will. (Still nursing DD). I kind of take that to mean that he is ok with me getting pregnant, because he's smart enough to know that if we are leaving things to chance, well, we're leaving things to chance. I'm of course really hoping it happens. But when he talks about getting rid of DD's outgrown baby things, I get a wave of sadness all over again.
Financially we're in a really good position for another one right now. DH doesn't work and DD goes to nursery school 8-12 4 mornings a week. I have a job with 16 weeks paid maternity leave. However, I can't guarantee that will be the case 3 years from now and of course, I'm not getting any younger.