okay, I have not read the book but if someone is
suggesting no rewards and no punishment it sounds
like that person never had an acutal kid but only a paper one.
I would think that this might work in some ideal situation
on some planet where kids are born from the can
and are cookie cutter cute and perfect and the same..
but if you ask a teacher in a classroom if she could
apply the same no punishment and no reward rule
to the whole room to get the same result that would be
just insane as to suggest it to all parents across the board.
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