Xerxella, back when I was able to BBT chart, I use to O anytime from CD 11-14. And then my AF would come anywhere from 27-30 days (usually, had a CD 31 almost C32 last month). My LP has always been on the longer side too (17-19 days) I think when O is early, AF comes earlier. The last few months have been so weird I honestly don't know. BUT I did have that Maya Abdominal massage last week and she said it could increase fertility so maybe that jump started me? Hoping. I am not assuming, though, so we will try for some more BDing (though last month the plan was to do every other day and DH couldn't do it). Yesterday I was feeling really positive that it was O when I was feeling the pinching pain. But today I am starting to wonder again. Oh well, have to try not to obsess . Glad you had a good talk with your DH. A friend of mine was talking about loss recently and said loss becomes a part of you and it's hard sometimes for people to see it. I was thinking that loss, especially m/c, eventually cannot be seen by everyone but when they don't see that part of you it's like they cannot see all of you and that feels bad.
Fingers crossed for you GISDiva!