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Weekly Chat October 22-28 - Page 3

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Birth control - I'm leaning toward trying the copper IUD. Hormones weird me out. I'm a little nervous about the heavier period thing, though. 

 

Sleep - Hank slept through the night last night!! It was the craziest thing! I was totally shocked. He slept soundly from 10:30 until 5am. I had been struggling with getting him to go to sleep before the wee hours of the morning and then, bam! All of a sudden he sleeps 6 1/2 hours in a row! Apparently, he's stoked about it too. I'm getting lots of smiles this morning from my usually very serious little guy.

 

Baby gains - Hank is a BEAST! This kid is solid! He weighs over 15 lbs already according to my bathroom scale calculations. He was 8 lbs 11 at birth and has packed on about a pound per week since. It's amazing! It actually takes some effort to pull him into bed to nurse! Of course with DH being almost 6'5" and me being almost 6', I don't think there's much of a chance this kid will be anything but huge.

 

Sick mamas - sorry you guys are dealing with colds! Ugh. I hate cold season!

 

Wipes - I just bought a few packages of baby wash cloths. They're the perfect size if I want to accordion fold them and put them in an empty wipes container. Mostly I just stack them on the changing pad and wet them in the sink when I go to change Hank.

 

DTD - I'm mostly just curious to see how everything works down there after running a baby through the works! I finally just stopped bleeding this last day or so and I'm kind of hoping for the go-ahead from the midwife at our appt on Friday.

 

Car seat - My mom bought me a convertible car seat! It's the Britax Marathon and it must just be a lot more comfortable because Hank is doing SO much better! If he does start to get a little fussy at stop lights, I just wiggle it up and down a little and he chills out again. 

 

Crystal Buffaloe - I hope you find some relief for your back! Back pain is just awful and I couldn't imagine dealing with that right now.

 

Worldshakerz - Sorry you've been feeling down lately. I still get days like that sometimes and am constantly evaluating to see if it could be PPD or just reacting to external factors. As far as cheap diapers go, I found some great one-size pocket diapers for about $5 apiece. The brand is Alva Baby. They run just a little big so I had to wait a little while before I could use them.

 

MissE - Sorry about the tough phase, I hope it starts to get easier. I feel like things have really calmed down a lot for us now at 6 weeks.

 

Me time/gym/AP - I totally had a knee-jerk reaction a little while back when someone mentioned how awesome it was that I was able to nurse and go out to dinner with friends and praising me for balancing my needs with my baby's. For a second, I felt like it was somehow pointing out that I was being selfish. Then I read it again for exactly what it was and laughed at myself. I love that Dad gets some quality time with the boy while I get some time to myself! We haven't tried a bottle yet, but only because I'm lucky enough to live pretty much right next door to my gym. I guess I just have guilt sometimes about selfishness. Like when I see Hank fuss and grunt for a minute on the monitor in the middle of his nap. Rationally, I know that he's fine and will doze right back off, but it feels like I've just left him alone up there all by himself and how dare I neglect him! Whenever I dash upstairs to "rescue" him, by the time I get in there, he's fast asleep again. Haha! Or if I'm doing something else and leave him on the floor by himself, I feel so bad about it!!  

 

Judy - Bahahahaha! I love the picture. SO funny! But sorry for you since you have to deal with it. I still remember the time I wrote all over the walls of the beautiful house my dad built. If only the magic eraser were around back then...

 

My food situation is killing me! Hank has shown signs of a food allergy and I'm on a major elimination diet to try and figure it out. I eat Paleo anyway, which cuts so many things already. But now I've cut out some major diet staples like eggs and nuts and it's killing me. All I want in the morning are some fried eggs and to bake up a batch of paleo banana muffins!

 

Also, I'm a little freaked out that I block nursed for too long and diminished my supply too much. My boobs were super extra floppy and empty-feeling last night, and this morning one of them still is. Hank seemed cool with it and maybe I've just gotten used to freakishly engorged and lumpy and this is actually how they're supposed to be? Especially seeing as how he slept through the night after nursing on Floppy Boob just fine. I don't know. Any insight?

post #42 of 99
Thread Starter 
Bwahahaha @Judybean. That's priceless. We have a off-white microsuede couch & chair in the living room. Purchased before we got a dog or had kids. I feel your pain.
post #43 of 99

OMG... I had an entire post typed out after working on it since this morning and my computer just deleted it! I am so irritated now irked.gif Let me see if I can remember what I was going to say.

 

Nuku - I don't think you touched a nerve with anyone. It's so great that we can talk about the things we even do differently w/o having to worry about being jumped on... BTW I don't think giving a bottle doesn't make you AP. IMO AP is very much about flexibility and the biggest AP, once again IMO, issues are things like not letting baby CIO, and having a good nursing relationship. I'm glad you get to go to the gym... I have absolutely no desire to do that regardless of of whether or not DS2 takes a bottle, which I don't think I will do anyway because I hate pumping, maybe I am doing it wrong but it is always so messy!

 

Judy - Your walls remind me of the walls at my parents' house... "Artwork" everywhere!

 

Carlin - I am sick over here also... Our house smells strongly of Thieves Oil! I have been loading up on Vit C and so far the boys seem fine DS1 hasn't napped as well as he usually does and he also slept poorly last night, but I took his teething beads off yesterday so I am wondering if that is why. DS2 has been restless too but that can be kind of normal... I am feeling better today though hopefully the boys will escape...

 

MamanF - I totally wish I lived in Canada! I love that you get so much maternity leave! The long wait list for daycare kinda stinks though!

 

Grunting- We get the ate night grunts also... I can kinda sleep through it but it isn't terribly restful... Sometimes a diaper change and nice nursing helps followed by sleeping upright. He realy seems to sleep best mostly upright chest to chest. He also sleeps propped up in the boppy otherwise he likes sleeping on his belly. ANywho, the grunting usually starts around 4:30am and can go untilI I give up on getting more sleep and just get up for the day.. I hope it passes because he doesn't sleep when DS1 naps so I go fro being up starting at 4:30am to all day... Luckily I do decently on fractured and little sleep...

 

More Babies - I know we are not done but I would like a break for about a year or so. I really would like to chart but am nervous about starting while BFing,  cause I thought that was supposed to be more difficult... Does anyone know?

 

Baby Dave is waking up so that is all for now... glad everyone is doing ok and I would also be up for a FB group or to just keep this one going on here!

post #44 of 99

I'd be up for a facebook group.:)

post #45 of 99

Oh I forgot to mention. We flew to Houston this weekend for my cousin's wedding. My family got to see David and some had never even met Jesse. We had lots of fun and we got a lot of compliments from people on the airplane about how great our boys were :) I will upload some pics soon, it was a pirate themed wedding :D SO fun!!

 

Edited to add pic

 

Here is DS1 in his pirate costume. It is a size 2T but his head is so big the hat wouldn't fit him! I could not get him to stand for me so I could get a really good one... eh whatever

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Edited by Princessjules - 10/25/12 at 6:55pm
post #46 of 99
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Originally Posted by Jend1002 View Post

Oh- and for those that have already been there with other children, please tell me that I will not end up with a 2 year old sleeping on my chest? I am SO traumatized by DS 1's sleep issues and I keep thinking that I'll never get DS2 off of the top of me. I am completely ok with it now- its what he needs- but I am afraid that we won't be able to move past it. I have major sleep trauma! How do we move away from this when it's time?


I can't give you the reassurance that you won't have a 2 year old on your chest...But for sure not a 3 year old!  My DD1 was a pretty bad/needy/touchy sleeper, then at right before she turned 3 she started STTN and being much easier, without me actually doing anything to change it.  Now she sleeps in her own room but still wants to have an adult there with her.  However if she wakes up and no-one is there she isn't too stressed.  I think that very soon she will be totally independent.  But I did worry!  Now I just actually really miss those cuddly co-sleeping nights with her.

post #47 of 99

PS...Does anyone with older kids remember when the night grunting stage stops?  If I had an idea it would make 4am much easier....I just can't remember for the life of me what happened 3.5 years ago!

post #48 of 99

FB group - I would love to be able to facebook-stalk you guys and your baby updates. I will definitely keep up with things on here because the forum format is great for a lot of things that facebook isn't. But if anyone wants to "friend" me, here's the URL:  https://www.facebook.com/molly.k.harding

post #49 of 99
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I will definitely keep up with things on here because the forum format is great for a lot of things that facebook isn't. 

Definitely the truth. Added you btw!

 

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So... I have something else to admit to you guys. haha... when I first joined this site, I totally made up a name because I didn't think I would actually be getting on the boards and posting. But things lead to other things and suddenly all of you know me as Anya. And regardless of how many times I've looked for a way to change my username without getting a whole new account, it cannot be done. 

 

Thus, my slightly embarrassing post of how Anya, is actually Alison. My facebook is www.facebook.com/TheAlisonRose . lol. 

 

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post #50 of 99
@nuku: the grunting stopped at exactly 12 weeks with ds.

@all: thanks for the nice words of encouragement. I'm typing this as dd is wiggling next to me, grunting away. Yikes. I'm contemplating sleeping in the recliner with her but we just got a brandnew kingsize mattress yesterday and it's just so darn comfy, lol.

@anya/alison. No nees to apologize lol..it's the internet, everything is possible smile.gif.
post #51 of 99

My name isn't really Maman Francaise either. orngtongue.gif

 

I've added everyone as friends. For anyone who want to add me: http://www.facebook.com/erika.meadows.988

 

My confession? I am not nearly as crunchy as most of you. LOL The extent of my crunchiness is that I breastfeed and have homebirths. Other than that, I am probably the opposite of crunchy and you will find that out if you friend me on FB. LOL PLease don't judge me. bag.gif

post #52 of 99

My facebook is https://www.facebook.com/carlin.a.johnston

 

My confession... I have a wrap addiction. lol

 

I like the idea of a facebook group but hope we still keep this group going as well. I like the forum set up too.

post #53 of 99
so did anyone make a group on fb yet? i cant see a link to one, but i will make one and if someone already did it i will delete mine.

link coming
post #54 of 99
fb group is private- pm me for link!
https://www.facebook.com/maddie.mcrojas me
Edited by MadiMamacita - 11/17/12 at 10:35am
post #55 of 99

I was going to but I didn't so feel free Madi!

post #56 of 99
my fb confession: i compulsively post political items. i am trying to stop... i just cant! i will be done soon though, i promise. then i'll be back to posting all the AP/breastfeeding/cloth diaper/gentle discipline stuff i normally post ..
post #57 of 99

I will definitely keep posting here, no way do I want to lose contact with Hyde and any other non Facebookers.  Also I'm always wary to post anything too personal or baby or birth related on FB because it goes out to such an audience and I can never really tell who can see what, so MDC is great for that. And I can't vent/rant/complain/cry about in-law visits on FB because I'm friends with too many family members!! haha. 

 

That said . . . I am SO gleefully adding and FB stalking all those who want to link up! My name really is Miranda ;) https://www.facebook.com/mirgunga. 

 

Confessions: DH always jokes that half the ladies on the DDC are probably really childless men living in their mother's basements in Scotland, so he'll be thrilled to hear that you've been writing under a pseudonym Anya! And uncrunchy MamanFrancaise, I also have a confession! I've been wearing the baby in a freaking baby bjorn everyday!! Until this week my Ergo and ring sling and woven wrap haven't been working for me (couldn't get the carries right, baby always screaming, baby's limbs wonky) and the baby bjorn always has.  I had a hunch that his feet dangling might not be great but he seemed very comfortable and never cried, so then yesterday I finally looked it up - YIKES.  Needless to say, we found a good modification for the Ergo and are using that and the RS now, but the kid has spent hours in the crotch dangling baby bjorn :( At least it's not one of those pouch/purse type slings!
 

Hyde, loved the article you linked, have been reading her archives all morning.

 

In other news, all hail the sleep sack! Got another 4 hour stretch last night . . . after a really irritating two hours of on and off fussiness and drifting into the world's lightest sleep then waking up screaming.  We're at 7 weeks tomorrow, am I the only one who feels like my milk supply is low?! He's gaining but my boobs haven't felt full in a couple days and he seems insatiable.  He's hitting / pinching / scratching at my boobs even.  (Adore him but that is especially irritating! DH even commented at one point when he heard a loud smack that was the baby's hand hitting my boob!) I've heard that the supply evens out about now and I'd feel less full, and he's gaining and growing great, but I'm still a little concerned.  I've had oatmeal two days in a row and been drinking fennel tea, haha - that's what the internet told me to do! I've been eating a ton of the brownies leftover from hosting book club last night too, but nobody had to tell me to do that!

 

We are *this* close to a smile! Had some cute cute cute half smiles! DH calls them "the expression" because they're not quite a smile but they're not nothin'. 

 

Completely unrelated but I started a consulting business earlier this year and we just signed our second client - which means that our operating costs (rent, phones, IT, etc) are now covered and we're making a tiny profit!!! I'm so happy about it. 

post #58 of 99
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Also I'm always wary to post anything too personal or baby or birth related on FB because it goes out to such an audience and I can never really tell who can see what, so MDC is great for that. And I can't vent/rant/complain/cry about in-law visits on FB because I'm friends with too many family members!! haha. 
fwiw i made the group closed and supposedly that means no one outside the group can see any posts or anything other than who is a member.
post #59 of 99
can someone enlighten me on the woven wrap? i have always used a stretchy wrap but dh prefers back carries. he is from peru and they do back carries but i don't know where to get the type of carrier they use there.. it is a large woven square. i will try to find a pic:

turns out if you google "peruvian mother" you will see lots of examples!
post #60 of 99

I added everyone and joined the group...I think it worked anyway.

 

Here I am on FB:

http://www.facebook.com/siennariver

 

My only confession is that I ate half a pumpkin pie for breakfast.

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