Wisdom needed! Been there done that needed! I'm not sure either feedback much appreciated.
So did you listen to your head, heart, spirit, religious beliefs, friends, family, husband, etc. when it comes to your family size and are you happy with your decision overall?
I am just feeling stuck in fear of all the "I told you so" moments (mainly from my own mind and my mother) if we decide to have a 3rd child. I know that we won't have any more kids until my man finds a stable job that would allow me to stay home and just teach online courses part-time (which I now do anyway as one of my jobs). But I'm scared that as soon as he lands the great job and we see it is stable, my heart will say "ok, lets get this show on the road and make another sweet person to love and take care of us when we are old lol!"
I don't want to make the wrong choice about something so huge. I love my kids so much and I don't want to mess anything up. Everyone (family and friends) seem to think its nuts to have more than 2 kids. And I do like my personal time to just relax and unwind now that the kids are old enough to entertain themselves sometimes. I loathe the 2-3 year old stages of tantrums and such. My boys are both very spirited. Also, my oldest son has autism so we have people looking at us saying "you were stupid to even roll the dice a second time" (even though our youngest does not have autism). I'm very healthy and only 28 years old. Just need some insight and perspectives to consider.