my marriage

[Pr3ttyPrincess]

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[pek64]

I am so sorry. I know how painful stuff like that can be. You are valuable and lovable!

When I was going through crap similar to what you're describing, I wore a necklace my aunt had given to me. I wore it constantly as a reminder that someone valued and loved me. Somewhere there is someone who knows you personally and loves you. In the meantime, for what it's worth, I care about you and what happens to you.

[Pr3ttyPrincess]

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[pek64]

Can you call from a pay phone, neighbor's or friend's phone?

[anon_abroad]

or email? it seems you have access to the computer, you can email your dad.

[Pr3ttyPrincess]

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[pek64]

Have you gotten in contact with your dad yet? Can you stay with your dad while you figure out what you want to do next?

[Mittsy]

Have you or could you contact a womens shelter? It sounds like there is some emotional/mental abuse going on and I think that would br your best bet for getting out immediately.

[Pr3ttyPrincess]

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[Pr3ttyPrincess]

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[loveandgarbage]

. It's good that you're reading up on emotional abuse. It's sometimes hard to admit to yourself exactly what's going on in abuse situations, but you will be better for it. Sending you positive vibes for getting out of your situation. Hopefully your dad can help.

[Greenlea]

Originally Posted by Pr3ttyPrincess 

this all started because i was making a sandwich at 1pm i hadn't eaten since 5pm the night before so i was hungry i had a good amount of meat on it hen he started saying stuff like "hey kids did you know there is a bread shortage in the world so you have to put as much meat as possible on your sandwich" that hurts. he says he didn't mean it to be mean but i feel like he did. i told him i felt like he was calling me a fat ass and he got mad and started yelling so i told him he was a fat ass and didn't need another sandwich. wrong i know i shouldn't have said it. he won't take his wedding ring back won't talk to me

Do you have kids with him? Kids that hear the emotional abuse you are going through? 

You need to get out of this relationship. I hope your Dad can help ((hugs))

[Pr3ttyPrincess]

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[Pr3ttyPrincess]

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[Greenlea]

Emotional abuse of their mother will have a lasting effect on them.  One day, they will start repeating what your partner is saying to you. I hope he does not emotional or verbally abuse your children. There are many places you can go for help if you want it. Please do not stick around "for the children". They will be better off NOT seeing their mother treated this way.

[Pr3ttyPrincess]

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[pek64]

I see you're in Pennsylvania. I have a friend in Pittsburgh who told me that they have good support and protection there for women and children who seek help at a shelter. I don't know about the programs in other parts of the state. I don't know anything about leaving with young children. Others here may have more advice. Just know I care. You deserve better.

[Pr3ttyPrincess]

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[Sativarain1]

big hugs to you!

you do not deserve to be treated that way. please know that. Goodluck with trying to get connected to a local women's group to help you. Are you considering leaving or just wanting support to deal with whats happening? sending you strength.

[Pr3ttyPrincess]

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Edited by Pr3ttyPrincess - 1/17/13 at 4:52pm