what would you do?

[mamatb]

Hi All,

I'm a newly single (4mths) Mom to a 3 yo daughter.  

I just found out that while my dd was with my ex on the wknd she slept in bed with him and his gf!  He has only been seeing this girl for a couple of months.

My ex is also a chronic drug user.

It makes me sick that he has been out of the house for 4 months, is just living with a buddy on his futon, and has his gf sleep there while my daughter is with him

I"m also concerned about his judgement while under the influence

[anon_abroad]

In this case I wouldn't let my daughter spend nights with him, strictly day time visits.