I hope all you ladies don't think I'm crazy when I ask this ? « Back to Group Discussions

[MnJ3]

Heck, we are all expecting in here or maybe some are planning on getting pregnant so maybe it's not so bad for me to ask this ?

 Ok I have always been an affectionate person, but I'd like to know if there are any expecting or planning mothers out there who is having an incredible increase in their labido? My DH said it must be a pregnant hormones going wild, because I'm like a wild cougar on the prowl...If we weren't already expecting, he says sure wouldn't take long to get that way as much as your hormones are going wild...I just wanted to know if it was just mine or if any of yall are going through the same thing...i hope I wasn't too up front...thanks

[loveandgarbage]

Oh yes. A million times yes. But mine waxes and wanes week to week. With DS1 I wanted it ALL THE TIME. Toward the end of that pregnancy DH and I lived in an apt above his job, and he would come up on lunch breaks to have an afternoon delight. I think most days we did it 3X a day. With DS2 my libido was only increased in the 2nd trimester but it was crazy. This time around it seems random. I'll want it all the time for a month, then sex with repulse me for a couple of weeks, then I'm back to being horny. It's totally normal. Enjoy it! I tell DH to enjoy it while he can because my libido is almost non-existent when I'm nursing!

[odinsmama]

Yep, mine comes and goes as well. I haven't had many days that I'm repulsed by it, but days in a row where I just don't think about it at all. Also many days of really wanting it. Dh is always up for it, and he likes my pregnant body quite a bit, so we've just had to start getting creative with positions that don't leave me with massive hip pain after.

[typebug]

I totally relate. I'm up and down depending on how I feel but definitely I'm more ON than the DH which is sometimes annoying for him. :) 

[MnJ3]

It seems like I think about it 24/7, like a young teenager lol....It wouldn't bother me to do it 2-3 times right after the other but DH just can't handle that....One good thing about being pregnant no excuse of I can't it's period time....He says Im like a jack rabbit who just don't get enough....I tried to explain it to him that it's difficult to give up a good thing once you have it well for me it is....Making Love is a very addicting drug to me, and atleast it is being done with my husband and not with random men....I just wish he was as willing as I am all the time....Thanks for your responses I'm so happy I'm  not the only one....Oh and yea on the position thing only have one position I'm comfortable with cuz all others we have tried just seems to pose problems...As long as he is fine with me being on top we will be happy go lucky parents to be for a 3rd time