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post #21 of 23
Bmcneal, I want to tell you that I was stalked by an ex-boyfriend and by atleast the info you described, this guy is doing the same thing. Stalking is not physical but its psychological and they are predators who prey on your psychological, emotional, mental weaknesses. Which sounds a lot like what this guy is doing with the looks and threats and everything. I strongly think you should call the police and make a report. Whatever happens, at least that will be on record and you will have the foundation that you are the victim here!

Hugs to you! I wish I knew you in person to help you with this more. I'd go to the police station with you! You deserve to be happy and so does your baby!
Oh, and I think you shouldn't talk to your mom about this stuff anymore. Everything she said seems to show she doesn't understand.
post #22 of 23
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The woman from HR came to me yesterday, and said she wanted to check and make sure everything was going okay. She said they talked to him, and that "He was surprised by the way some of the things he said made me feel." She said he said he would leave me alone, (and he mostly has, since then), and then asked how I was feeling. I told her that having to work/be so close to him still makes me feel... bad, and it's bothering me, in my mind. (So close, sometimes coming in physical contact. greensad.gif) and she said, "Oh, well, you'll get more comfortable around him as time goes on." angry.gifirked.gif Um, I don't think it works like that. At least not for me, in other similar situations. I just was like, "Yeah... okay."  I told DF, and he tried to get me to go up there with him so he could "talk" to them. I wanted to let him, because I never can say things for myself, and it was so hard to go there to talk to them in the first place, just for them to tell me it's my fault, like everyone always does, but at the same time, I just want the last couple of weeks I work there to not be any harder than they already are/are going to be.

post #23 of 23

:hugs: Did you get to the police station to see about a restraining order? I hope you're doing better and will be thinking of you. I'm glad you have at least one supportive person in your life and am so sorry you've been so hurt. Please take care and good luck with everything

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