So, I am 5 weeks pregnant and we have decided not to share with our daughter until we hear the heartbeat. My first appointment with my midwives isnt until the first of the year. We are traveling home for Christmas and we are waiting to tell family then. I am trying to think of fun ways to tell them and one of my ideas is having my girl dressed in a "Big Sister" shirt but then it might confuse her when everyone gets excited and is making comments to her. Any other ideas for telling family?