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Sad :(

post #1 of 12
Thread Starter 

I am so very sad to be leaving the July DDC.  I was shocked to experience a miscarriage last night at 4.5 weeks along.  I have never experienced this before and I really hope I can conceive a healthy baby again very soon (I put a lot of pressure on myself because my daughter is 2 years and 8 months old and I did not want much bigger of a gap--unfortunately it is out of my control).  Good luck to you all! Wishing you a healthy pregnancy and birth. 

post #2 of 12
((((((((((hugs)))))))))
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss! It must be so difficult. Take good care of yourself and take some time to heal. You can take some comfort in the fact that many/most women are able to go on to have healthy pregnancies and beautiful babies after a miscarriage. While I haven't been down that road myself, I know many that have. Sometimes it's just not meant to be and we go on to try again. I'm not trying toinimize it, just hoping to be encouraging. Big hugs again!!
post #3 of 12
Oh mama, I'm so sorry! greensad.gif

If you ever need to talk, please know we are here! Many of us have been through this and understand the pain!
post #4 of 12

I miscarried at 4.5 weeks end of September. I'm sorry you are going through this. I just want you know that there is hope for the future. hug2.gif

post #5 of 12
Thread Starter 

Thank you. 

 

Dayiscoming2006, did you choose to wait a cycle before trying again?  I feel like I could maybe try sooner since I miscarried so early...
 

post #6 of 12
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Originally Posted by oregon2010 View Post

Thank you. 

 

Dayiscoming2006, did you choose to wait a cycle before trying again?  I feel like I could maybe try sooner since I miscarried so early...
 

 

No, I didn't wait. I got pregnant immediately after the miscarriage. There's another woman in the June DDC that also got pregnant immediately after her miscarriage. I've heard there's no medical reason to wait with an early miscarriage. So, if you feel well otherwise, you should be in the clear. 

post #7 of 12

I am so sorry Mama. :(

post #8 of 12
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Originally Posted by oregon2010 View Post

Thank you. 

 

Dayiscoming2006, did you choose to wait a cycle before trying again?  I feel like I could maybe try sooner since I miscarried so early...
 

Sorry to hear that :(  I had an early m/c about 2 years ago, about 5 weeks along and I conceived right away without waiting for my next period.  A lot of women choose to do this instead of waiting, there is no increased risk of m/c from not waiting a full cycle.  Do what feels right

post #9 of 12
So sorry for your loss hun. Big hugs to you, and best wishes to conceive again quickly
post #10 of 12
I am so sorry for your loss! If you are feeling ready to try again right away you should do whatever your heart tells you. I waited a long time between my miscarriages to TTC and in some cases it was the right choice, in others, well there isn't anything I can do now. Wishing you peace and lots of hugs and support!
post #11 of 12

So sorry for your loss -  Praying for healing
 

post #12 of 12
Oh, I'm so sorry. Your heart must be breaking! Hugs, mama!
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