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Too Sick to DTD?
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post #1 of 10
11/26/12 at 7:12pm
Thread Starter 
Anyone else? I feel so bad for hubby, but bleah, I just don't feel well enough right now. It's an extra bummer, because we were in a really good phase of our intimate lives. I'm sure he's afraid I'll have no libido for the next three years.

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post #2 of 10
11/27/12 at 5:12am
Exactly the same here except that beyond tired, I have zero interest. It was the same last time too. Being pregnant kills my libido and we also were in a really good phase, so it's a shame. I'm hoping for something of a turnaround in the second trimester but I'm not holding my breath
post #3 of 10
11/27/12 at 12:45pm
Yup! I cant stand the smell of my dh when I am pregnant, especially now, but up until I was 7 weeks we were trying to dtd once per week at least. I still have a libido but the thought of the smells associated really makes me inclined to decline. Plus the last time my cervix was in a really weird place and it made me very uncomfortable.
post #4 of 10
11/27/12 at 12:53pm

Sometimes. I feel so sick. But then, when I am in the mood, I need to DTD RIGHT NOW! If I wait, I get sick again. So the hubby had to rush home for his lunch today whistling.gif

I hope I won't feel sick too much longer.... This whole, I want  it NOW kind of takes the romance out of it. Which is kind of sad....

post #5 of 10
11/27/12 at 2:25pm

yes...my dh is bummed because if it's like last time i won't want to dtd much for the next almost 2 years... eeks. but between pregnancy and breastfeeding--my libido just died and took a long time to rise again...and i never felt like i completely recovered to my normal--but i am still breastfeeding. 

 

but...maybe it'll be completely different! :)

post #6 of 10
11/27/12 at 4:25pm

Even thinking about DTD makes me sick.  All that movement...no thanks!
 

post #7 of 10
11/27/12 at 7:08pm
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Originally Posted by heyitskalista View Post

Even thinking about DTD makes me sick.  All that movement...no thanks!

 

That. Just the thought. Ugh.
post #8 of 10
11/27/12 at 10:36pm
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Originally Posted by heyitskalista View Post

Even thinking about DTD makes me sick.  All that movement...no thanks!
 

haha! so true!

post #9 of 10
11/28/12 at 12:01am
Thread Starter 
You guys are cracking me up! Glad I'm not alone.
post #10 of 10
11/30/12 at 6:41am

OH man! Ive been too tired to DTD since my son was born Feb 2011. LOL  Its a wonder I got knocked up this time. I enjoy the deed when Im doing it, but just getting up the energy to do it is daunting...

Poor hubby. we used to be total freaks! lol.

Someday in the future when my body is mine again....blowkiss.gif

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