okay mama's- since the liberator ramp is on the thread.... i don't think it'd help me. but i'm increasingly frustrated with my inability to really just enjoy making love. it takes me a lot longer to warm up, and usually i get frustrated by the inability to stay comfortable and actually enjoy it! To paraphrase "Pregnancy, sir, it provokes and unprovokes. It provokes the desire, but it takes away the performance. Therefore, extended pregnancy may be said to be an equivocator with lechery. It makes her, and it mars her; it sets her on, and it takes her off; it persuades her, and disheartens her; makes her (hehe) stand to and not stand to; in conclusion, equivocates her in a sleep, and, giving her the lie, leaves her."
lots of pillows- but between being breathless, unable to flip over, unable to get good angles, needing to pee a couple of time, worrying about smothering/crushing my husband, and getting frustrated w/ myself, it's been a challenge.
husband is blessedly cheerful and patient, and happy that i'm eager to keep trying. but just struggling with increased desire, crazy dream life, and inability to really get those 2 things to mesh with reality!!!