We have a play tent and tunnel. I saw a fun looking inflatable obstacle course but it would take up so much space that I don't think we have anywhere to put it and keep it up. I put balls on his wish list for someone else to get. My stepsis always teases that whenever she asks what one of the boys wants I say, "balls." She doesn't have kids so she doesn't get it but they really do love balls of all kinds. We always do books but my mom comes and leaves books in secret places without saying anything so we have a ton. There is literally nothing that we don't already have.
The idea weaning is sad but it's not the end of the world. If Ava weans now, it's ok. She has got a lot of BM in her and she's healthy and happy and good to go. Ryan weaned at just a little over 12 months. I was sad but there was nothing I could do at that point. He was done. I didn't mean to wean him but I guess I did help it along by feeding him solids so much.