That's not something I would compromise on no matter who drives. I tell my dh that unless he can come up with scientific evidence that his way has benefits over mine I get the final say. I do all the research. He doesn't. I compare it to the fact that I don't show up at his job and tell him how to do it.
Yeah. I am not comfortable at all with FF so it won't happen. This is OUR child's safety, its not something I mess with.