With a guy, it might be doting, but with women it's cat calling, whistling. It takes a bit of getting used to. Some of my friends with blonde hair would regularly get followed for a few blocks while they called at them. It can make you feel very uncomfortable. The leaders of the group I was with actually forewarned us of this practice so that we could be prepared. As a brunette it happened to me less often. As far as I could tell, most of the men don't mean anything degrading by it- it's just what they do, it's part of their culture. But Abra, you're a blonde so be prepared!
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