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[firespiritmelody]

Originally Posted by Oliver's Mama 

Thanks! I know it's not really something to worry about, but as Spruce mentioned above, when you've had such good luck with healthy, uncomplicated pregnancies and deliveries, it's hard to believe the "good luck" can keep on coming.  Lil boys are tough though, just you wait! I've got plenty of bruises and scars from their shenanigans over the years! 

I'm right there with you. Almost feels like tempting fate. Such is the life of a parent though, right? The worry never really stops.

[MaineCoastMama]

I'm curious. Can you decline the glucose test? It sounds so unappealing. 

[IronMam]

Originally Posted by MaineCoastMama 

I'm curious. Can you decline the glucose test? It sounds so unappealing. 

I did with DD. Though I later came to the opinion that it's important to do, or to do something similar. My midwives check for protein and some other things in my urine at every visit, so I'm not sure if they'll send me to do it or not. If they do, I won't decline, as unpleasant as it will be.

[MaineCoastMama]

I have my urine checked for sugars and proteins at every visit too. So far so good. I guess I'll ask the midwife about it at my next visit.

[Oliver's Mama]

Originally Posted by MaineCoastMama 

I'm curious. Can you decline the glucose test? It sounds so unappealing. 

I didn't think it was that bad, but I've always passed the first round. I think the second round 3 hour test would be the real killer.  I just thought it was like drinking Orange Crush; just ask for a cup of ice to pour it in.  And request to be reclined/lay down for the blood draw. And have a snack onhand for as soon as it's done.  Ok.... then you're good to go!

Even if you're not at risk or show no symptoms, gestational diabetes left untreated isn't good for the baby. or yourself, so I think it's worth the minor inconvenience.

[Munchkin08]

SO you are saying that this is a two part test? I too would rather not do it, but I am not sure what my MW policy is. Do you always have to have your blood drawn? (I HATE needles). What are some alternatives?

[BeanBean06]

I'm having my 1hour glucose test on Wednesday morning. I am at risk for GD being on strict bed rest and restricted from any activity for so long. The one hour doesn't sound bad at all. Hopefully ill pass that and won't have to worry abt the 3hr fasting one, as that is only done is the one hour isn't passed. My dr office has a lounge type quiet room I can lie down in while waiting the hour, if I feel faint. I don't have to do anything to prepare for it aside from limiting sugars and carbs for 24 hrs prior. And no sugar the morning of. Ill come back and let you all know how it goes

[Oliver's Mama]

Originally Posted by Munchkin08 

SO you are saying that this is a two part test? I too would rather not do it, but I am not sure what my MW policy is. Do you always have to have your blood drawn? (I HATE needles). What are some alternatives?

It's only a two-part test if you fail the first part.  So, most likely you only need to do the first test, which is like an overnight fast then you drink the "special solution" and sit in the doc's office for an hour before they draw blood. Yes, you need your blood drawn, as that is the whole point of the test, to test your blood glucose levels.

[1babysmom]

Originally Posted by Munchkin08 

SO you are saying that this is a two part test? I too would rather not do it, but I am not sure what my MW policy is. Do you always have to have your blood drawn? (I HATE needles). What are some alternatives?

It might not even be something your MW considers standard.  The awesome MW I had during my pregnancy with DD2 didn't even do the test.  Though if she suspected any reason to I'm sure she would have recommended it.

Obviously this isn't one I do myself UC'ing (though I'm not really a fan of the way it's done anymore, it just doesn't seem like a healthy test even though I get the point of it...I'm probably in the minority there though!  But I do remember thinking that yucky- sugar wise- drink didn't taste as awful as most people told me it would! LOL), but I watch my BGL's regularly and try to always be very aware of what I'm eating (in relation to a GI diet).

[firespiritmelody]

I'm sorry I don't comment on most of the posts, I read and check in every day, I just don't usually feel like I have much to add.

I've been under an immense amount of stress recently as we are probably going to be relocating our business (retail) at the end of this month and we've had almost no time to prepare for it. One of our cars has a malfunction so we're down to only one car which makes it hard for DH to get the kids where they need to be when I'm at work. And, on top of that, we've been fighting with the state for months to try and get insurance coverage (for me and the kids) since we're low income (but since we own our own business we had to jump through lots and lots of hoops)

But hallelujah, we found out that me and the kids are covered finally! That means I can finally go in for our anatomy scan and hopefully find out what this baby is this week! I'm so relieved and excited!  We need all the time we can get to work out names (our youngest was a full week old before she was named!) and especially so if it's a boy because we've NEVER had a boys name we agree on! I'm also anxious to start purging baby and toddler items that are pink and frilly if we do indeed have a boy in there - no point in going through them more then once, ya know? We have 13 years worth of "girl" clothing so I need to go through it badly anyway, but if it's a boy (and since this is our last baby) I'll be more inclined to part with the things that aren't going to get used. 

Thankfully, most of our baby equipment (cosleeper, stroller, etc) are all gender neutral so we're ok there.

Ah. Getting the insurance sorted out is such a weight off my shoulders. So greatful right now!

[bmcneal]

Originally Posted by firespiritmelody 

I'm sorry I don't comment on most of the posts, I read and check in every day, I just don't usually feel like I have much to add.

I've been under an immense amount of stress recently as we are probably going to be relocating our business (retail) at the end of this month and we've had almost no time to prepare for it. One of our cars has a malfunction so we're down to only one car which makes it hard for DH to get the kids where they need to be when I'm at work. And, on top of that, we've been fighting with the state for months to try and get insurance coverage (for me and the kids) since we're low income (but since we own our own business we had to jump through lots and lots of hoops)

But hallelujah, we found out that me and the kids are covered finally! That means I can finally go in for our anatomy scan and hopefully find out what this baby is this week! I'm so relieved and excited!  We need all the time we can get to work out names (our youngest was a full week old before she was named!) and especially so if it's a boy because we've NEVER had a boys name we agree on! I'm also anxious to start purging baby and toddler items that are pink and frilly if we do indeed have a boy in there - no point in going through them more then once, ya know? We have 13 years worth of "girl" clothing so I need to go through it badly anyway, but if it's a boy (and since this is our last baby) I'll be more inclined to part with the things that aren't going to get used. 

Thankfully, most of our baby equipment (cosleeper, stroller, etc) are all gender neutral so we're ok there.

Ah. Getting the insurance sorted out is such a weight off my shoulders. So greatful right now!

I feel the same way, too.

I'm sorry everything is happening with your business. That stinks. But I am so happy that the insurance stuff is all figured out! I know you were super stressed about it, so glad you don't have that to worry about anymore. :)

[firespiritmelody]

Originally Posted by bmcneal 

I feel the same way, too.

I'm sorry everything is happening with your business. That stinks. But I am so happy that the insurance stuff is all figured out! I know you were super stressed about it, so glad you don't have that to worry about anymore. :)

Thanks

[alaskanmomma]

Possibly TMI question...

Does anyone feel like a shooting sensation "down there"? Best way to describe it would be I feel like a hand is going to shoot out of there, it's not painful persay BUT does make you do a double take when it happens. Never had this with the other pregnancies, and now it's constant!

[Munchkin08]

Anyone have any experience with "rib flare"? From what I have read online it seems to be due to the lack of space that you start feeling pain under your right breast. I felt this twice yesterday. But I thought it might be too early since I am only 23 weeks. 

[Greenlea]

I did the glucose test with DS1 but I didn't find it bad. The drink tasted fine to me, I didn't pass out, and I passed the test.  I didn't do it with DS2 because I had a homebirth but my urine was checked for protein and sugars.  I really don't want to do it this time. I'm going to ask if there are any alternatives like jelly beans or something.

Munchkin - I got that with my last pregnancy. It was much later though.

I have my 20 week anatomy scan today and I'm very excited. My first US for this pregnancy, so hoping everything is looking good. I feel like this baby is on the smaller side. And I"m hoping my older boys do good too.

[stormysky]

I had glucose intolerance with my last pregnancy, which means I failed one of the 4 of the 3-hour blood tests (if that makes any sense). Basically, they draw your blood after you have the drink, then they draw it again at 1 hour, 2 hours, and 3 hours. I think I failed the 2 hour blood draw. The 3 hour test is awful, because you have to be there for 3 hours and can't eat or drink anything! My midwife told me that if I fail the one hour this time, she will just consider me gd, and not bother with the 3 hour this time.

Anyway, I'm not an obvious huge risk for gd because I am not overweight. My previous babies were big, but not huge - all under 9 lbs.

[bmcneal]

DF told me today that he wants me to put my resignation notice in tomorrow. As much as I'm/we're worried about finances, I didn't realize how much of a weight off my shoulder's this would be. He said for me to see about part-time jobs for now, closer to home, but that if I can't find anything, he's not terribly worried if I don't.

[Greenlea]

I so wish I could quit my job. I hate it here. My mood is 100% effected by it and on days I don't have to work I'm a much much happier person. Unfortunately I carry our health insurance and we can't afford to pay out of pocket for this birth right now.  I do plan on quitting once the baby comes though, as my DH's work will have open enrollment for their healthcare in May so we can get on his insurance. I just can't stand the fact I have to stay here for 4 or so more months.

And I know I'll have to get a PT evening/weekend job after baby is old enough, but thats ok with me.

[IronMam]

OMG. My house is clean! It's never been this clean (it wasn't even clean when we moved in - despite the land lord insisting otherwise  ). If any of you are in a position to have somebody clean your house for you when baby comes, you should! I can't remember the last time I felt so relaxed. I got to spend quality time with DD this morning, and everything looks and smells so clean (but not nasty-chemical clean, it was a green cleaning company). I can't wait until a few months from now when I get to schedule the rest of the cleaning. Winning that contest was one of the best things that ever happened to me. I am on such a high right now!

Teddy is kicking stronger and stronger these days. I'm not sure, but I think he may have even woken me up this morning. I woke up earlier than usual, which is odd for me because I usually sleep deep until the need to pee wakes me up. 

I can't believe how close Christmas is. This holiday season is passing me by waaaay too fast. I want it to slow down so I can enjoy it as long as possible. This is my favorite time of year!

[bmcneal]

Originally Posted by Greenlea 

I so wish I could quit my job. I hate it here. My mood is 100% effected by it and on days I don't have to work I'm a much much happier person. Unfortunately I carry our health insurance and we can't afford to pay out of pocket for this birth right now.  I do plan on quitting once the baby comes though, as my DH's work will have open enrollment for their healthcare in May so we can get on his insurance. I just can't stand the fact I have to stay here for 4 or so more months.

And I know I'll have to get a PT evening/weekend job after baby is old enough, but thats ok with me.

I'm sorry

I'll be doing my CNA training as soon as taxes come in, and I can pay for it, and looking for part-time CNA job when I can go back to work after baby is born.

Edited by bmcneal - 12/11/12 at 4:21pm