So.. my 6 year old befriended a new kid who came to our school, my kid lots of friends, new kid no friends.. my kid feeling sorry and wanting help...
my kid good heart.. so this been going on for few months since the school started.
We became friends with the parents.
Kid quickly started dominating my child, more and more, showing abusive emotionally
and mentally behaviours.. as in would grab something from my child and would tease..
would not share some play spaces trying to dominate the place and push my child away..
my child cried on many occasions becuase the other kid woudl just make my kid upset
for sheer pleasure. I saw it with my very own eyes...
the more time went by.. it turns that the other kids is canning and plotting and
would talk to my child about hurting other creatures and being generally mean ..
my child wanted no part of such a talk, witness my child telling the other kid
not to talk "like that".
now after some more conflicts my child finally got upset and did not want to play with the other child on the playground at the recess, the other kid pushed my kid off some climbing wall on purpose,
my kid got hurt but did not report..
next day my kid per my request avoids the other child completly, the other kid follows
and bugs my kid, my kid tells that kid "you pushed me off that thing and I hurt myself go away, I don't want to play with you"..
the other kid gets to hit my child, my kid trying to cover with hands.. the other runs to the
adult and reporst that my kid did not want to play with her...
and the adult saw them pushing eachouther or so she wrote in the report,
and my kid get in trouble.
okay help please?
That other kid has a long history of abusing other kids, few good solid acts ever since school started, my kid was a model student, best grades, now because she tried to help that person and we tried to do the same as a family .. now we are deailng with consequences of the other parents raising the bully and approving it and encouraging it?..
I am pretty sure they told that kid to do that what that kid did did... to report my child for not wanting to play with that kid although they were aware that their kid did hurt my child as I told the mother.
oh and that one: once on a playdate when the other kid numer of times tried to take away stuff from my child making my child upset on purpose and laughed about it many times.. finally we broke up the playdate only to be aksed next day by the other mother.. "what was your daughter upset about"???
I was like what? I did not say much ecause opportunity did not allow but I was thinking like.. are you %$% kidding me? your child is bullying a good kid and you take pleasure in not noticing it and dare to ask me what my child was upset about?
What do you do when your kid start friendship with bully withouth knowing it and then
your child gets in trouble with school for trying to break the friendship?