A Saner TTC: The Long Nights' Moon - Page 7

[prescottchels]

I'm out too...boooo...AF came last night. I had a feeling it wasn't sticking this time so I'm not super freaking out about it, and DP and I are just growing together stronger and deeper all the time. I mean we only just started talking to each other 6 weeks ago! We feel like it's been way longer of course, but really it's still crazy new! lol  

Sparkle and John-hang in there!! go easy on yourselves!  

[John16n33]

I got mine for Christmas so I technically didn't spend any money on it lol, that's my rationalization.

prescott-  I'm sorry, I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you next cycle!

[Lidamama84]

Oh, yes, I remember you saying so. Great stocking stuffer!!!

[SparkleMaman]

Prescottchels So sorry AF found you. Fx for next month!

John13n33 That's true, a gift is a gift. I'd have used it too!! Here's to New Year's good news

[Xerxella]

I hope everyone has a happy New Year! And that all of us are in due date clubs next year!

And here's to all of us that get to drink tonight!

[John16n33]

Well I tested again this morning (8dpo) with an answer test and it was a BFN.  I know it's early but I am starting to feel out for the month.  My temp also dropped all the way to right above my coverline today.....

[SparkleMaman]

Hang in there John 16n33!! I am 9-10 DPO today, got my Wondfo order and was not been able to help myself from doing the same also Sorry, I know, not very zen. But at least I'm honest!! Of course, BFN I felt totally okay this morning (I totally think it's too early), but now I am second guessing when I O'd (perhaps it was a day or 2 after I thought) and then how many DPO I actually am, yada, yada, yada. 

I truly have such a good feeling about this month!! Fx!! I am confident there will be some New Year's baby dust going around

[katiecornflakes]

Originally Posted by SparkleMaman 

Hang in there John 16n33!! I am 9-10 DPO today, got my Wondfo order and was not been able to help myself from doing the same also Sorry, I know, not very zen. But at least I'm honest!! Of course, BFN I felt totally okay this morning (I totally think it's too early), but now I am second guessing when I O'd (perhaps it was a day or 2 after I thought) and then how many DPO I actually am, yada, yada, yada. 

I truly have such a good feeling about this month!! Fx!! I am confident there will be some New Year's baby dust going around

I was just looking at my chart this AM and thinking maybe I ov'd a day later than I thought as well! Not sure if it's a coping mechanism but whatever. ;)

[SparkleMaman]

Katiecornflakes LOL Yeah, the second guessing and 'not symptom spotting' can drive you nuts in the TWW!!

[chuord]

Happy new year ladies! Firstly apologies for the huge gap from my first post - I got AF on the 12-8-12, and although I was ok with it, I had to disassociate for a bit. The lady I have kinergetics with is very intuitive and we've been working together for a while now. For any who don't know it kinergetics taps into the unconscious and is able to clear baggage loitering there - more importantly the unconscious doesn't lie... Ranee checked and confirmed both our suspicions that I had been pregnant and had Lost it on the Saturday. More satisfyingly when we investigated why it was my dh's issues not mine! The reason I'm sharing this - particularly for others with dh issues is that in my thoughts it's not the financial specifically that stresses them, but the worries of being a good supportive parent - I mean dh starts this year as a qualified surgeon lol, and yet he still had insecurities... I think that sometimes when they are working long hours and are unable to support us with time and effort they feel like they are letting their families down. Lol I used to have to point out what I'd done during the day (menial tasks) for thanks - then dh started pointing out how hard he'd worked, and I realized he also needed to feel he was contributing lol!
More importantly I got Ranee to fix his issues and this last month we have been like teenagers in love, everything feels better. Hats off to my Bowen therapist who had activated my reproductive bits lol - no complete bding days out from O and I still got pregnant - albeit temporary.

Dakipode - thank you for your kind words, it sounds like you've been through a rough time! Here's hoping it improves naturally and without stress. Re the orgasm part, having a medical dh, having tried all the orthodox ways to improve my health to little success I've learnt to try the different - as you can tell in a huge fan of the natural therapies and the quirky - its helped me reconnect with me.

Lilikay and coati - re the side Pain, lol add me to the list. I used to stress out about the sometimes week long pain near my right ovary, however after my dh would check for appendicitis each time (ultrasound one time) we both got more complacent - maybe some of us just 'feel' that area more?

I am not yet up to date on the feed - so a general wish for everyone's bfp over the next little while... Hugs to those who need one x

[serena76]

😂😂I'm second guessing even tho I've had 3 bfn and AF due tomorrow. Still at the back of my crazy mind I'm thinking, I could be, maybe, it's still possible to be pregnant😝

[chuord]

Oh can anyone advise me if implantation can be like a thorn prick? Cos I felt that yesterday (9dpo) but no clue if relevant.

[dakipode]

John16n33: sorry you got a BFN. Glad to hear you got a short visit with your family at the airport. I wish we could have those, our visits tend to be too long.

Lidamama: Sounds like you're sorting some stuff out but at peace with where you are now.

JustJenny: Hmm, maybe you've found a progesterone problem that will now be remedied. I hope it leads to good things for you.

Xerxella: Yay for your HCG numbers going down quickly. Hopefully that means you'll be ready again soon! I wish you good luck in your quest to find a good doc who can help you sort out why you have recurring mc's.

Prescott: The pendant you got for your mom sounds really nice. Sorry your test came up negative, any more news since then?

Jessher: welcome and congratulations on your marriage! Hope this place can help you stay sane. We all have worries and questions and sometimes just voicing them can be extremely helpful. Good luck to you!

coati: Hope you're having a good time visiting your family! I hear you when you mention you thought you'd be pregnant by now. I had a small meltdown myself last week and for some reason I'm feeling a bit down about the new year, rather than excited like everyone else. I wish you good luck this year!

chuord: Not sure if you can feel implantation. I'll keep my fingers crossed for you!

Everyone: happy new year! May 2013 be lucky for all of us!

AFM: the visit with the in-laws went better than expected. It did feel weird to not be able to talk about the November mishap with MIL but DH and I decided to keep it quiet and only tell them about good news, hopefully sometime later this year. I managed to stay fairly zen throughout the week though I found myself wondering/thinking about being pregnant at least once a day and have been having crazy dreams about zombies, my deceased cat and all sorts of other wacky things including being pregnant this cycle. I'm due for AF sometime before the weekend and am trying to hold out on testing though it would be nice to see two pink lines...

[Lidamama84]

Sorry to hear you think you're out, John!!! Fx'd for a surprise BFP!

Fx'd for Sparklemaman too!! Keep thinking those positive thoughts :)

Dakipode, here's hoping you have a very reproductive year.

Happy New Year to everyone else! I hope this year brings lots of babies. I will really miss our group once y'all start moving on to DDCs. 

AFM: we spent a lovely New Year's Eve with our friends and even made it to midnight, although we didn't think we would, so we toasted the New Year at 10pm, Greenland time, haha, and then we kept chatting and drinking until we realized that it was almost midnight. First time in years I've actually been awake to see the New Year in!!! And, considering we had at total of 4 kids under 4 with us, even more incredible. Our DDs went to bed one by one, and their little girl fell asleep on our couch listening to us talk, and their baby nursed to sleep and slept in her carrier. It was great because they live just up the road, so no one had to worry about drinking and driving :) Though it was at least -10 when they left and blowing snow...

In TTC-related news, I just ordered some OPKs and HPTs from ebay. 10$ after shipping for 20 OPKs and 10 HPTs. That's not too shabby :)  Looking forward to getting a better glimpse into my cycle.

[serena76]

Omg! AF is late, I just tested and got a BFP!!😃😃😃😃😃😃
I'm scared its false now lol. I'm gonna try and keep calm, don't wanna lose this one too.

[prescottchels]

Happy New Year, everybody! 

I've been recovering from the flu since Christmas so we didn't do anything super exciting for New Years. I went over to DP's the other day and layed on the couch watching the snow fall while he serenaded me on the piano-fire in the wood stove-super cozy... I learned that DP doesn't care at all about messy BD'ing and my libido is kinda high when AF is visiting so it works out great for both of us  so we kinda have a head start on this cycle lol  AF will be packing her bags in the next day or so and then we'll be getting down to serious baby making business 

ETA-OMG Serena!! Congratulations!!!! I hope it's the real deal!     

Remember to breathe 

[dahlia810]

Congrats Serena :)

[dahlia810]

I haven't been here long, so not totally sure how this works, but will we all be staying in this thread, or does a new one start each month?

[SparkleMaman]

Hi Dahlia! Hope you're feeling well and that your day off allows you time to relax and heal.
Edited by SparkleMaman - 1/3/13 at 3:49am

[Xerxella]

Congrats Serena!!!! A BFP is a BFP!