Our daughter loved her paci, until she decided one day she didn't. She's never been interested in her thumb. Some of my friends' babies have never been interested in pacifiers. My mom said that of the two of us, I loved a pacifier and my sister preferred her thumb.
I think if your LO does not want to suck her thumb, there's probably not a whole lot you can do. If she likes a pacifier, I'd probably just give her that. Personally I think the pacifier hate gets ridiculous--sure, it's good to wait until breastfeeding is established before starting one--but it's totally possible to have a baby who loves the pacifier and still breastfeeds great, mine did. I think a lot of people worry about paci use because "what if it interferes with breastfeeding" or "what if it's hard to wean her off it later" but, to me, that kind of borrowing trouble is unnecessary. If it becomes a problem later on, you'll deal with that problem THEN, and it might not even become a problem, and in the meantime if it's working, do what works today and let next month or next year take care of itself.
(Of course, feel free to ignore me if this has nothing to do with your reason for not/rarely doing pacifiers.)
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