Aloha Greetings from the Islands!
Just found this thread wanting to find a midwife for a friend on the Big Island. Came across an article about childrens' earaches and remedies. The article suggested to use the herb Belladonna - and didn't mention HOW to administer, whether by mouth or to place drops directly in the ear. Belladonna is a poison to ADULTS and therefore would really be a problem to a much smaller body. Couldn't believe what I was reading. Also, tea tree oil was suggested. This oil is a dehydrator and should never be placed in the ear. It is used mostly topically for burns, abrasions and other skin problems. The incorrect info about using tea tree has been reproduced over and over.
Ear problems in children can also come from diet (I have seen mothers giving very young children items like coffee, cakes, other sweets, breads, and other products which are unbalance for a young body. Organics are the best.
Have been a manufacturer/vendor of Whole Foods Market from 1993 to 2001, with specialized alternative health care products specifically for the ear. Please contact me if you wish more information by contacting me through this thread.