Hi, Jasmommie!

Thanks for replying! I knew we couldn't be the only ones out there.
My ds has really been pondering, too. Very healthy.
I wonder if we should move religious comments to the religion thread, or maybe I should have posted there in the first place. I agree, these rites of passage are important for our teens, as much as a coming of age celebration as a religious ceremony. Especially for the boys, imo.
Posting here, I'm wondering if you're having a party, and what you're serving, etc. I get so nervous hosting parties. I teased ds that I was going to serve the traditional German Lutheran dish, a huge vat of sauerkraut! LOL
We're keeping it very simple, as I've not been working since the baby 15 months ago, and we had a HS grad party a year ago, and have a freshman in college.

Ds will throw chicken on the grill (praying for good weather) and I'm making sloppy joes.
And I haven't ordered his gift yet! I'd better get online today and have it next day'd!!!