Hello everyone, some may remember me. I started dating my current girlfriend back in Auguest when she was 8 months pregnant. Before, she had her baby in October, we were becoming really close. We would talk on the phone several times a day, text all day and see eachother at least everyother day. They she had her baby, I was there in the delivery room nd I even helped her dive birth to her boy. I even cut the cord. For the next month or so, we still talked on the phone and texted and she always told me to come over every day.
Well, I know new moms go through this pos-pardom-depression and their harmones are up and down and their main focus is their baby. But I feel like she has totlaly lost all interest in me. We don't hold hands or kiss anymore, talk less on the phone and text less. Never really see eachother. A few weeks ago, I finally sat down with her to ask her what was going on. She told me that she didn't know why she wasn't feeling affectionate or love towards me. She love and cared for me no more than she loves and cares about her friends; however, I was the most speicial man besides her boy in her life.
She told that I am the perfect man for her and man of her dreams as she described everything in detail. But being the perfect man for her and for her boy, she did not know why she could not feel any emotion or love for me or show affection.
I don't know what to do. Was I just too nice to her and got myself in the frriend phase? Should I give it more time?
In the last letter I wrote, people were pretty brutal and disrespectful so I only ask that please tell me what you think is going on, may help me figure out how can I be the man of her dreams, the mean she wants to end up with, the man she wants help raising her boy but a man she has no feelings for?
Thank you for your time , I just need some advice on this.