Last year my son was expelled from school for one day for showing his penis to another boy in the classroom. (He was 6) In another incident he was caught lifting his shirt and showing his belly and dancing around wiggling his butt in the classroom. Once again, this matter was called to my attention by the principal and the teacher.
He had maybe 2 or 3 incidents like this last year and the principal declared my son "sexual".
I changed schools.
I didn`t believe that a few incidents of lifting your shirt or pulling down the trunks was deviant behaviour.
Well, now a year later, he is 7 and yesterday I caught him in the bathroom with his playmate showing each others` bottoms. His friend is 5, by the way...another boy.
My son admitted that it was his own idea and he just wanted to show his butt and see his friends butt.
I was actually mortified at this point. I think he is too old to be doing this stuff and just saw my son in a whole new light.
What is up with this behaviour? What can i do to stop this from happening? How do I know this isn`t happening often at school? Basically, I freaked out at him yesterday when I caught this...I^m very upset. Thanks for any input or how to deal with this...