gabbyraja, there is a similar savings program in my area but problem is I need to get the money for classes now, not in the future. I only have 1 more class to take for my teaching license.
http://www.picaheadstart.org/eligibility.html so I had a thought maybe dd will qualify for headstart once I lose spousal support and if I am only making 10$ an hour, wrong oh wrong 19,xxx for a family of 3! I will be getting just about 13800$ from child support a year, so I guess any job I get will totally knock me over the 19K threshold unless it is just 4-5 hours a day. Well back to the drawing board on that one. I do believe xdh will end up paying closer to 70% of childcare, maybe more, it is based on income and we went over the figures while at a divorce meeting and that is what it would have been at my income of 30K and his at 100000K. He did try to fight on that tidbit during the divorce, he wanted it worde 50/50 along with copays, he finally gave in and went with 50/50 on the copays and income based on childcare. But the issue I ran into last time when I attempted a job and it laste 3 lousy days was since I am the only enrolling them and going back to work all this time, I have to shell out the money, and I will need to get the child support modified to get the childcare reimbursed. Ex was totally against me working and never gave me a dime for that. So when it comes to paying for daycare I will have to go back to court when the time comes. He will, give money for fun things but he pretty much said he will make it difficult as possible and will not help me out at all as far as keeping the kids any(even just dropping them off at a daycare) in the mornings etc, most especially while I am getting spousal support. Because my working will cost him more money, he is against it totally. Of course we both did want me to sahm until the kids were school age as well, so that is part of his issue. And mine too, much rather stay home with dd as long as I can financially.