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Cutie patottie- I have read a little on the 18 month sleep regression, and just read that link and another she linked on her page. Thank you! Is it weird that she has never coslept, it's just not for our family, but this started with her refusing to lay in her bed. Screaming crying bloody murder, but the second we go in her room she is better. She will sleep on her floor all night long if we lay next to her or she'll sleep in our bed no problem. I am scared we're making bad sleep habits and that she will never go back to sleeping on her own. Last night was the worst night so far. She didn't sleep at all until 1 am when I laid on the ground with her out of pure exhaustion on my part. Then I snuck away but she woke up 2 hours later and I just gave in and brought her in our bed. I'm at a loss. I know it's normal, but I feel like this is worse than all the stuff I've read. Your own situation is always worse than anyone else's, right wink1.gif


Awww, this too shall pass.  Maybe she is "feeling" the new baby's presence already and just needing to be with mama to reassure herself.  18 mos is still very much a baby.  It's so much more apparent to me now with 3 older children.  My 20 mos dd seems like she's so small.  She starts off in the crib and sleeps until at least 2 or 3, most nights, then she's in bed with us.  Sometimes, she sleeps through the night in her crib.

I don't think she'll develop bad sleep habits.  Maybe the best thing for the next few weeks is for everyone to get some good rest however they need to.  HUGS  Then gradually try and eek back into your old bed arrangements again. 

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Same here-- the m/s is on and off which is weird but I cannot stand any food smells. I've done the dishes while starving just to get rid of the smell of dirty dishes, I'm usually kinda lazy about that lol!

 

My sisters are driving me INSANE. One is so blase or aloof about how worried I am being newly pregnant and facing unemployment, food stamps, prenatal assistance... VERY real reasons for being upset. The other thinks I'm nuts for worrying about miscarriage. UGH! Just complaints here apparently!

 

I have to go to a wedding on Sat. and I *look* pregnant but don't really want people to know. Anyone here have tips for how to deal with that?

post #343 of 1009
A thick sweater/jacket maybe?

I am not effected by food smells as much as visual images. Particularly the sight of dirty dishes makes me lose my appetite. Stuff like that.
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Dirty dishes have been setting me off, too! I dry heaved yesterday when I opened the fridge & smelled something - old food? Who knows. It was not good. 

 

Funny story - I yelled at my poor DH yesterday after he woke me up from a deep sleep in which I had a very vivid dream that he went to get me lunch. I was really expecting to see food, so when I woke up and saw him standing there empty-handed, I let him have it. "Why didn't you ask me if I wanted lunch!" Etc etc. So unfair!! Poor guy! We laughed about it later. These hormones are something else... I also cried during the Super Bowl half-time show last weekend when Destiny's Child came out. No reason at all! I feel like my body's been taken over. Well, I guess it has!

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I opened the fridge and got a whiff of chicken and almost lost it. blah! Definitely having a hard time finding the right balance of food in my stomach, too much is painful and not enough is nauseating. I have laid down the law with my dh, he is not allowed to eat the last of anything and if it's some thing I like and am able to eat right now, he totally can't touch it! 

post #346 of 1009
I've already had two naps today and I think I'm going to bed, it's 8:15pm.
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My morning sickness has really been all over the place. One day I'll feel awful, and the next no problem. Most days, though it's kind of vague, persistent nausea. I don't know if it's my imagination, but it seems like ice water with lemon has really been helping. I'm also feeling lots more stretchy round ligament pain type feelings this time around. I've always had that, but this time it seems worse, earlier. Maybe just because this is my third pregnancy?

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I'm waiting for someone to put me out of my mysery. It has been almost four straight weeks of intense nausea, only vomiting once per week. My house needs to be cleaned, I need my life back. I'm feeling super whiney about it today.
post #349 of 1009

I feel exactly the same way, Madelyn. I'm just feeling so miserable because of the constant nausea. Like you I'd love to be able to be productive again, and be able to get out of bed without dreading teh nausea I will feel until I go to bed at night.

post #350 of 1009
Today was the first day I've felt just a little queasy all morning. I am starving yet everything seems gross.
post #351 of 1009
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I feel exactly the same way, Madelyn. I'm just feeling so miserable because of the constant nausea. Like you I'd love to be able to be productive again, and be able to get out of bed without dreading teh nausea I will feel until I go to bed at night.

 

This, exactly! 

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I have such bad food aversions that I hardly eat. I have been terribly sick for three days with fevers, body aches, headaches, coughing, dizziness. Yuck. At least I slept a ton. My breasts are pretty much calming down pain wise but they are big and getting veiny now. Otherwise I feel great, lol!
post #353 of 1009
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Originally Posted by nettlesoup View Post

I feel exactly the same way, Madelyn. I'm just feeling so miserable because of the constant nausea. Like you I'd love to be able to be productive again, and be able to get out of bed without dreading teh nausea I will feel until I go to bed at night.
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Originally Posted by nettlesoup View Post

I feel exactly the same way, Madelyn. I'm just feeling so miserable because of the constant nausea. Like you I'd love to be able to be productive again, and be able to get out of bed without dreading teh nausea I will feel until I go to bed at night.

Is your nausea getting worse at night? Last night a laid down at 8:30 and immediately had to get up to vomit. That was the first time that has happened at night and also the first time it happened where it was completely involuntary. I always feel like I can talk myself down from the urge to puke, but last night it was like, no it's happening NOW.
post #354 of 1009
My nauseas getting worse, and I'm vomiting more too, I can't stomach any food now and survive on biscuits and toast. I dread getting up in the morning coz I know it's gonna b a battle to get food in and stop myself from puking, I can't wait for this to end! greensad.gif
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I am nauseous 24/7 now greensad.gif
post #356 of 1009
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Is your nausea getting worse at night? Last night a laid down at 8:30 and immediately had to get up to vomit. That was the first time that has happened at night and also the first time it happened where it was completely involuntary. I always feel like I can talk myself down from the urge to puke, but last night it was like, no it's happening NOW.


My nausea just seems to be constant and the same throughout the day, no variation at all. I'll be 12 weeks on the 20th, so I'm hoping that the symptoms will start to lessen around that time.

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Oh, and I'm getting mild pain/discomfort on the right hand side of my abdomen again and it's making me nervous. I'm tempted to get an appointment with the doctor just to put my mind at rest.
 

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I'm wishing for morning sickness and instead I'm spotting. Going to see if I can get in to the dr tomorrow to see if my baby is alive or not.
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My thoughts are with you, 100% mom.
Edited by momzilla - 2/11/13 at 4:39am
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Keeping you in my thoughts 100% mom. Wishing you happy news out of this limbo. Xx
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