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So good news is baby had a heartbeat of 137. Bad news is he is measuring 6w5 days instead of 7w 3 days, and the gestational sac is measuring at 6w. My doctor is still very guarded and bringing me back in Wednesday next week before sending me off to the OB (midwife in my case). Nothings ever easy over here... Sending strong growing vibes down to little B and hoping he stays with us.

 

Off to watch the snow fall...

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Tf - sometimes they measure behind and catch up fairly quickly. Yay for heartbeat!!!!
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Tf - yay for hb!!! That's awesome news. I hope your little bean is just off to a slow start. also, it's a matter of mm. I can't imagine how they measure something so small. Sending you lots of strong growing vibes. Stay safe in the snow!!
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TF - Totally agree with SKJ that it is a matter of mm we're talking! Even at the best angle, they can be "off" with measurements, measurements vary from person to person ect. Annnnd that's how people who don't track their fertility end up with a false due date and a baby that's forced out way too early. Hang in there! 

 

AFM - My meds are coming on the 14th. Happy Valentine's Day to me!

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TF - although I have limited knowledge, what the other ladies say is soo logical! For me it's the heartbeat that is important... Btw little B is still drawing energy, and feels goosd to me.
SKJ - heaps of inter racial marriages - cant wait to hear more! You sound like you are very content with progress at the moment? When do you get more info from doc, or do you have to wait until after another month?
Chrissy - if it helps I couldn't find anything to really focus energy on for you... Big hugs for all the emotional roller coaster.
Sila - yay for at least getting the meds, I guess the up side is you can have a romantic date before starting ☺ I need to retrace to check... Are you doing progesterone, or more intense like clomid?
Indie - so how did you cope with the snow after all? Lol how's things with you?
Bebe, gum tree - how are things going for you ladies? Any pretty scans for us?
Hugs to anyone I missed (phone so useless lol)
Afm - well although I missed temping the 3 days during O and am totally out this month - according to ff im 15 dpo lol... According to my normal cycle I still have several days to go before AF... I thought I read 99% of lp phases were 12-14 days? According to ff i dhould have been heading for a 28 cd instead of my nirmal 33. I know I can deduct 3 days to make O later from lack of temping... Just interested to see what happens - lol it relieved the boredom of a useless month!
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Thought Id add a picture of little B so you know who to pray for!
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oh toothfairy! that is your baby! your peanut! your sweet pea! i totally agree with everyone else... the heartbeat is what is important, measurements are so inaccurate... and what a lovely heartbeat!! so happy for you!

chuord - hi! i will be back later for personals but i did survive the snow!
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TF wow... What a beautiful pic - looks like a keeper to me
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Love the pic TF!!! Come on baby B!

So, I'm totally confused greensad.gif I went for my saline this morning and it was totally normal. The nurse called to say that I can start trying again. And, she gave me an idea of what the doc wants me to do - it's not at all what I had in mind and I am just so confused. She wants me on lovenox (blood thinner), vitamins (didn't think to ask which ones?) and METFORMIN ?? I think she said that I'd start all of them after ovulation. I didn't really write everything down so I'm trying to piece it all together. The nurse said those recommendations were based on my blood work. She didn't mention anything about ovidrel or progesterone, which is what the doc had originally said I'd be on. I called back for clarification, but I don't think I'll hear back until Monday. I'm CD 6 and I go back in on Thursday (CD 12). I don't want to try this month if I don't know exactly what we are doing, you know? Ugh. What to do? I'm traveling for work Sunday - Wednesday. Blah!
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SKJ - weird that you're not being given what you thought... Is there a chance that the doc has just changed what she thinks you need this cycle from your accumulated results? Why not give it a whole hearted try - if nothing works at least you can talk to her about changing them up the month after... Or you never know there could be a random yet viable reason for it. I spent 2 years doing Physio every fortnight - at $90 a hit trying to sort my sore neck, which could often trigger a migraine... Went to the Bowen lady and she said my lower gut was really bad - and until that was resolved the point on my neck wouldn't release! Lol I know it's a random example - but our bodies are so weirdly connected sonetimes... I really feel it can't hurt to try - it could be emotional, but I know how committed you are to getting pregnant... And the emotions are the evil side effect... Hope you work it out xxx
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Btw I'm awake reading and posting in bed... Dh is lying beside me (middle of the bed) snoring like a champ... Oh well lol
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Chourd- Oooh... I know how nights like that feel. Hope he quieted down and you got some sleep.

 

SKJ- Did she do a glucose test or anything that would indicate the need for metformin? Seems like a weird one but she does seem to be educated in things that most REs ignore so I'd go with it. Obviously its too late for ovulation stim meds but it would surprise me if she didn't want you on progesterone. Hope they get some answers for you! I totally understand not wanting to try without the right combo and risk another m/c. 

 

Sila- Excited for your fresh start with injectables. What a nice Valentines gift!

 

Speaking of Valentine's Day, anyone have romance planned? 

We're going to a Hockey game Friday night, we don't really embrace the commercial side of the day...

 

 

Thanks for all the love. Looking at the picture of how they measured compared to last time I am less concerned about the days being off. Just focusing on good things and hoping for the best. Grow baby grow. 

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We're already under about 30 inches of snow & it hasn't stopped. It's too hard to measure because of the wind it is drifting. Poor jpack too, they were at 32 inches.
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A travel ban and positive opks! Hmmmm... wink1.gif

Hope everyone is doing well... Had an OK time with the new doc on Thursday, a few more tests plus that histeroscopy I had asked for months ago, other than that not much news over here. He's super concerned about multiples, so he thinks we should do three clomid IUIs then on to IVF. I kinda thought that was missing a few steps- I guess he's not into injectibles without the control of IVF. My current plan is the histeroscopy and a 100 clomid IUI next cycle and after that probably reassess. I'm still hoping to find a doc who's a little more concerned about finding the problem, because I'd really prefer not to keep it up with these early losses. At least now I'll be on progesterone after o. Anyway, hope you all are doing well. We're digging out ok from under a TON of snow, still really happy about the trip to FL, and enjoying the time home. Hugs to all!
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jpack - travel ban and positive opks you say? sounds like a perfect recipe to me! i'm guess your doc is worried about multiples due to the fact that you seem to get pregnant easily enough with one egg, it stands to reason you are at a higher chance of all eggs fertilizing in an injectable cycle...

chuord - let's give it up for interracial marriages... woot woot smile.gif

cait, gtree... hope you guys are safe and warm!

skj - i can't wait to hear your doc's rationale for this new protocol but in the meantime i totally trust her regardless. i'm actually love that she isn't going to cookie cutter direction...

afm: started gonal-f tonight. doing 112.5 units cd4-8. follicle scan on vday. have a 12.5 cyst which apparently is the max size they will allow for you to proceed with a medicated cycle. so, close one. i will be doing an iui 12hrs and 38ish hours after trigger and thanks to info passed on to me by skj, i will do those iuis with a full/almost full bladder. apparently there is a study showing increased pregnancy rates with full vs empty bladder. worth a try. can't seem to fall asleep tonight. feeling very optimistic about this cycle. i'm expecting that to last till cd8/9 when i'll sure to get anxious about how i'm responding to meds...
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I am late to get in the shower to get ready to meet a friend from brunch, but just wanted to say quickly . . .

TF, thinking of your little one and feeling completely optimistic for you! I will say a little prayer that she continues to grow. I can see her growing by the second!

Indie, gonal tonight - yay! Love that you are starting this process. This is going to happen, girl!

SKJ, Chrissy, what's happening?

I got caught up with everyone, and am thinking of you all! Sorry I didn't do complete personals but I love the updates from everyone!

AFM, I had the level II u/s and everything looked great but their risk of Downs calculation was 1/38 not 1/99 like my doctor told me based on AFP. The genetic counselor basically said things got screwed up in the dates and at this point all she could tell me was that based on my last U/S that my risk is 1/38 for DS but the test is notorious for false positives. None of my U/S, including the level II, show any positive soft markers at all, and my original Harmony test, which is 99% accurate, was negative. The only lingering thought I have is whether there was any chance that test was actually taken before 10 weeks, in which case the results couldn't be trusted. In my calculation I took it at 10w5d. I might take the MaterniT21 now just for the very last piece of mind kind of test. I can't believe how silly this whole thing has become, and I actually do think everything is fine. That's the update!
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Indie - I've never heard of the full bladder thing! But it makes sense. Like a full bladder would change the position of your uterus right? I'll be about a week behind you. AF should start for me next Sunday! Come on babies!

 

Jpack, TF - Are you still buried?

 

bebe - I think everything will be fine as well!!! Have you started searching for doulas yet? Hint, hint ;)

 

AFM - I was at a birth all day/night/early morning and I'm surviving on less than 3hrs of sleep. But it's so worth it! A beautiful unmedicated, intervention free, vaginal birth of a big 10lb baby boy!

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bebe - i'm sure everything is just fine but i totally get your wanting to have more information. but i think it is a GREAT sign that the u/s looks good!!

 

sila - the bladder thing... apparently it helps on two fronts. one it helps to position the cervix so the IUI is easier overall (not an issue for me... i have had two IUIs on an empty bladder and the procedure itself was pretty easy breezy) and two it increases clinical pregnancy rates due to "passive straightening of the uterus". i guess it makes for better placement of sperm? i'm totally going to try it out this time, no harm and nothing to lose and all... how exciting that you are a week behind me! yes! come on babies!! and that birth sounds wonderful! man, i'd love to get past thinking about follicles and lining and IUI timing and move on to thinking about birthing...

 

how is everyone else? i'm at a computer this week so now i'm going to be begging for updates :) thinking and praying for baby toothfairy!

 

afm - anyone ever take red raspberry leaf? i picked up some capsules at the health food store today when i went in to refill my supplements... i'm really hoping i have a better lining this time around. last time it was 7.9 the day before trigger... so within acceptable limits... but i know it would be best if it was up above 10. not sure how a couple of days of rrl will help but here's hoping... i'm trying to do whatever i can to increase my chances for success while at the same time accepting that a lot of this is outside of my control. a tricky balance to maintain. i figure i've been faithfully taking supplements for what seems like forever, we're doing two IUIs instead of one, i'm going to try this full bladder thing... and other than that, all i can do is  praying.gif that the injectables will give me more follies this time around and that sperm and egg will meet and make us a baby. i don't think i've ever put this much effort into any one thing without a guarantee that it will pay off somehow...

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Indie - I totally get you on the trying so hard and normally achieving but... I was like that with my health too lol, in fact it was what got me down most - the fact that I couldn't make it improve by doing my best... Lol what a surprise (not) if this post is filled by a bunch of over achievers who love to be in control of their lives - just like me!
Actually one thing the psychic said was that by going into that loop of control I actually bring myself down, that relaxing and enjoying life would work better for me with health, to take things gently career wise and gradually regain my mojo... That if I go back in the level I left on straightaway I will relapse from trauma lol... Oh dear I sound weak! Ok hopefully my ramble will entertain someone for 1 min 😜
Bebe - I'm with indie And sila it just feels like all is well. Is there a way you can mentally ignore the latest test and just enjoy your pregnancy till the next scan?
TF Jpack - omg we have even been getting pics of your snow here - way deep... Hope you are both ok? Jpackdid O find you while in lock down?
Sila - where are you at in your cycle? Lol apart from exhausted!
MsD sherry - how are you guys doing?
Afm - AF finally came yesterday, woohoo - since I knew there was no chance... So onto casual and frequent BDing this month, and hoping for the best. Dh has not found temp work for this month and we are having so much fun together, after 12 years together (7married) I love him more than ever, and we are so gross together and laugh so much!
Happy dust and luck to everyone - no matter wher in the cycle xxx
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Indie - That's what I was thinking. Interesting. I'm doing it. I have a bladder the size of a proton though. Red Raspberry is definitely for toning the uterus. Some women use it during pregnancy or at least during the end. I remembered this blog post and thought of you though. Praying for more follicles than ever for both of us!

 

Chuord - Woohoo on to the next cycle! No missing that egg this time! I'm uh, 8dpo. I love not really knowing or caring since there is no chance in the universe! Expecting AF Sunday! I took a nap and I think I felt better before the nap. Early bed for me tonight! I love the first couple night's sleep after a long birth. Amazzzzing.

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