My son who will be 3 by the end of this month has started acting weird. He absolutely doesn't like to go to his grandparents(Dads side). My parents haven't visited us often so i am not sure how his relationship with them will be.
As a matter of fact he likes only me and his dad. Since ours is an extended family my in laws come and stay with us every 6 months. As a baby he used to go nicely to them but now even when they come forward to hug or kiss him he whines. Even when my niece (18 months old) who likes the game of touch and run comes and touches him he cries or goes and hits her. Sometimes my niece comes and pulls his hair and hits him real hard then also he starts crying and goes to hit her. This i understand because he gets irritated when somebody pulls his hair or hits him. But i don't understand why he does it when she just touches him. Its so embarrassing to have such a sensitive and whiny kid. Why is he acting like this. Otherwise he is a normal kid.
Everybody gets irritated with his whining (me too) and say he is acting so strange. Why does my DS do this. I feel sorry for my in laws. I feel my DS is being selfish on purpose. He only seems to like me or his dad. Is it normal kid behavior. I am having sleepless nights on this. How can i make him to be more considerate of others.