i am not sure...i am still undecided. i intuitively knew my first was a son (and found out that i was correct) but we did not tell anyone.
i also refuse to indoctrinate my child based on their gender (and avoid everything pink or blue).
plus i gave away all my baby clothes, diapers, and stuff (sling, toys, etc.) and need to start from scratch.
i know my DH will want to find out but i kind of like the idea of a surprise!!!! hmmmmmmmmm....undecided........