i have been on baby center for years and have stumbled upon a few other groups/forums and they make my blood boil! the other moms can be sooo unsupportive and downright mean. im hoping this will be a better fit for me. my name is jessica :) im due 6/22 and this is my 4th pregnancy. i lost my first at 12 weeks and went into preterm labor with my second at 22 weeks, she was born alive and passed away after about an hour. with our third i was on bed rest from 9 weeks on and make it to 39 weeks with one threat of pre term labor that landed me in the hospital for over two weeks! he is the best little man ever. after losing our daughter at 22 weeks i've wanted a girl...it was like dangling a carrot in front of me, we had always wanted a girl (not that our boy was a disapointment) and she was taken from us much to soon. so...here we are. praying for a girl! i have been on bed rest since about 12 weeks and had a cerclage put in around that time. going a little crazy. this is definitely more difficult than with my baby boy. i felt like a martyr with whereas now i feel almost guilty for not taking more precaution and doing things i didn't do with my last pregnancy. i feel in denial a bit. so...i really need some support! not drama and meanness.