We're having great success with the "don't offer, don't refuse" strategy of getting our nursing relationship on better footing. Which got me wondering how I can apply that idea to night nursing. I'm a big "stick a boob in it" night parent, which has the consequence of frequent night nursing - a kind of vicious circle. I'm thinking that if don't offer and kind of wait till she either asks or really inches down if that would help get night nursing to a more manageable place.
I realize that to a more mainstream crowd that this would seem like a rather obvious solution. But I know you all will understand.